1. Using sexuality as a negotiating clout.
So many women using sex as a negotiating tool in their relationships is totally improper. It’s undesirable to refuse your husband sex in order to obtain cash for wardrobe upgrades or even to purchase a new car. In a marriage, sex should never be used as a weapon of negotiation….CONTINUE READING HERE
2. Not taking good care of yourself.
This is a marriage error I frequently witness women making. Before you married him, you gave a lot of importance to your appearance, but as soon as you are married, you stop taking care of yourself. Because you are now married, nobody has the right to tell you to stop being gorgeous. You must continually present yourself in the best possible light since your spouse constantly expects to see the stunning lady he married. He should keep the body he fell in love with.
No man likes a whiny woman. Give up attempting to justify your whining; it’s wrong. While criticizing your husband for everything he does, you cannot demand tranquility. Ther are better ways to handle issues in your marriage than nagging; try one of them instead. Stop criticizing him and shouting at him; he is not your son.
4. FEELIN’ UNSAFE
Acting insecurely in a marriage is another mistake women make. I understand your need to keep your husband a secret, but if you don’t really trust him, why did you choose to wed him? I observe women compete with one another for a man, and I think that is bullsh*t. Your husband is the problem, not the other woman. Instead of attacking the other woman, find out why your spouse still likes and is with you. Never compromise to the point of arguing with another woman in front of men.
5. ACTIONS THAT IMPLY YOUR IN-LAWS
You don’t anticipate your husband to entirely break all ties with his family just because he married you. I honestly feel that if you truly loved a man, you would also adore his family, hence this statement is untrue. Stop treating his family like rags and get to know them. Sometimes mothers-in-law might be a pain because they feel that you are taking their place in their son’s life, but behaving negatively toward her won’t make the problem go away.
6. WHEN THERE IS DISAGREEMENT, CONVERSATION IS ESSENTIAL.
There will inevitably be times in your marriage when you and your husband disagree on particular issues, but ripping down the walls or airing your grievances in front of the world just makes things worse. Learn how to explain your point to your husband in a polite and civil manner. For a marriage to work, both partners must respect one another….CONTINUE READING HERE